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welcome to the center of light radio

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with spiritual teacher intuitive

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musician composer and best-selling

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author of the Divine Principle anchoring

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heaven on earth your host Keith

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Anthony Blanchard welcome one welcome

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Keith you don't have the right to hoard

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spiritual teachers from all

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around the world going to be offering

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their heart and the admission to this

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that's the gig get in there and be

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it's time to get down the center of

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light radio business today my guest is

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mr. Michael Muir dad and we're gonna be

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talking about the gifts and challenges

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of the spiritual path using clear and

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easy to apply insights and tools

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Michael Muir dad will share some of the

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most important things everyone needs to

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know to take a quantum leap in spiritual

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and personal development as well as

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dealing with the most common challenges

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on the path this talk will cover such

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topics as applying love and forgiveness

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as a means of raising one's

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consciousness and vibration let me tell

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you about Michael himself Michael is a

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world-renowned spiritual teacher healer

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and author he is the author of the

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best-selling books you're not going

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crazy you're just waking up creating

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fulfilling relationships the heart of A

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Course in Miracles which I love that

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course did not honor the course and the

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book of love and forgiveness he has also

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been the spiritual leader at unity of

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Cydonia now for over six years for over

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35 years Michael has transformed the

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lives of thousands of clients and

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facilitated thousands of classes

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lectures and workshops throughout the

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world on mastery spirituality

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relationships and healing and is rightly

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noted by many authors as a teachers

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teacher and a healers healer welcome to

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sort of like radio mr. Michael Moore dad

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thank you so good to be here Michael I

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always start off my show by asking my

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what brought them into the field of

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spirituality and awakening it was just

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something by you that you would let into

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just because of a prompting or was pain

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your prompting well you know I always

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say we can learn the easy way or the

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hard way

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and I can say thank God you know that

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this time around it was the easy way in

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that the prompting was something that

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just felt like it was naturally there

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you know people are sometimes they they

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have stories of drama trauma loss you

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know that brings them to the path but

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for me I'm one of those and I know

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that there's other people out there like

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this that I just kind of felt that

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connection all the time I'm not saying

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you know it's not a boast it's more like

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I really feel grateful I'm kind of lucky

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that way that I just felt you know one

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of those folks that even as a kid

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whenever there was a show on or the rare

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movies in the old days that were a

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little more spiritual I was on it man

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music I love spiritual themes in music

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whether it was a one hit band or whether

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it was a band that was all the time

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spiritual I just so I always loved love

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I always loved spirituality always loved

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anything related and just ate it up and

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just felt like my God you know because

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at the time yeah you know there it just

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wasn't as readily available so we're

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really in a fortunate time that it's

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become and sometimes it has happened so

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slowly people don't realize it we take

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for granted that it wasn't there at once

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upon a time and it's more readily

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available now

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spirituality support systems groups and

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so on so it's just something it's just

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something that was always there inside

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of me and it just took some time to to

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find my tribes or my you know people of

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okay Nolan's no trees so yeah if they're

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having a technical issue so I'll

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elaborate a little bit you know the

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spiritual path I always say to people

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it's it's a question I commonly ask

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groups you know like hey do you know do

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you remember getting on the spiritual

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path and you know folks well yeah you

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know and some people like yeah you know

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or someone passed away someone gave me a

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book it's not always negative or

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difficult or challenging situations but

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even you know hey somebody gave me a

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book or it's all the variety of things

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like I'm asking you folks listening do

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you remember when you got on the

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spiritual path what it was that prompted

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that so we say sure you know and we

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remember some moments here and there but

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check this out technically if we have a

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spirit within us then that means we've

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always been on the spiritual path let me

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any path we walk is a spiritual path

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because we have a spirit within us so

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there's really I mean it may there may

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be times when we seem to have gotten on

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the spiritual path but we've always been

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on it even if we're talking about

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prostitution and drug addiction or you

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know or just things that seem a little

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more acceptable and and easy you know

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raising children going to school

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whatever it was it was always part of

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our spiritual path because our spirit

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has always been here the only thing that

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changes really is whether or not it was

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the easy way or the hard way

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yeah we're always on the spiritual path

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but it's not always being done the easy

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way right there's times when wow you

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know we really learned to be christened

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by the Holy 2x4 rather than sprinkled

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and anointed with you with the water

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blessings you know so it's it's out

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that's how you know how it is and and

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it's important for us to accept that so

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that we can look back and say wow you

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know now that I'm understanding that I

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can look at my life and stop telling

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people husbands children I wish you were

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on the

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spiritual path instead what we can say

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is oops sorry about that I was I was

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trying to wish you were on the spiritual

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path and in truth you've always been on

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the path I just didn't realize it you

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were on your path and I was asking you

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to get on my path and it's okay for us

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to apologize to partners and children

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that we were maybe overly pushing to

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kind of you know get onto our path you

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know finding our way our own way of

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letting them find their own way if that

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makes sense you can let me know when

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you're back on but you know today I was

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asked to share some of the tools and

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this is really cool I mean this this

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could easily be made into a book I don't

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think it's one that I would write but it

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could easily be made into a book what

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are this essential tools for

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spirituality on the spiritual path

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because there's all kind of me you could

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say well tarot cards you know you know

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going to a spiritual gathering I mean

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those aren't tools those are sort of

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little things within the tools the seven

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primary tools on the spiritual path how

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could the first one not be related to

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connecting with spirit

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I mean God first in all things whatever

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you think you know see God to be let's

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think you know God first in all things

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so learning to pray and meditate is an

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essential tool learning essentially to

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commune with God in some form in some

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way commune prayer meditation and

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learning to just become that presence

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not to you know I mean if your thing is

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to pray to something out there that's

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fine but it's really beautiful to draw

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that presence within and awaken

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something within so that we become an

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integrated part of that divinity the

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second tool that I would comment on is

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you know prayer and meditation you know

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as you heard mentioned in your host here

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of course in America is a good is a

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wonderful book and a good example of

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what that means to practice you know

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communion yet in the form of prayer

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meditation a lot of us say God is

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of love and we have to understand that

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love in action love manifested is not

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about snuggles

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it's not about partnerships in romance

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that stuff is really fleeting can you

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hear me sir yes yes thank you my

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apologies sir I don't know what's going

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on but I just caught what you said love

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is not about romance snuggles and warm

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fuzzy feelings something I say all the

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time and again thank you for your

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patience everyone it's not it's deeper

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than that that is such the superficial

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layer of love is that if that's love at

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all you got two people in a relationship

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and they have been dating for however

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many years and one decides for whatever

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reasons I'm going to leave and the other

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person says but please don't you say

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will wise and they say because I love

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you that is erroneous you are afraid to

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death right it's it's kind of silly in a

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way and I've mind you I understand it we

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understand it patience and love you know

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and everything meant to be to them but

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but that's called romance not really

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love or or if you're gonna call it love

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lowercase L fine but when you and I

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practice any of us practice forgiveness

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we're practicing love in its greatest

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expression on earth that and

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unconditional love

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meaning to be unconditional with people

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and and the practice of forgiveness is

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one of the greatest expressions of that

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in it when we're beyond this world when

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we're in oneness and the Bliss of

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divinity divinity or divine

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consciousness we don't sit around and

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practice forgiveness when we're

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completely immersed and one with spirit

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there's actually nothing to forgive

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because we're in the love that love is

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love when it's expressed is called

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forgiveness but when you're in the state

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of love there's nothing to forgive

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because you know who is it that can

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offend you in your divine you know is it

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that can leave you if you're one with

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all beings right right though you know I

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did a burst of light live it's something

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I'm doing social media often I'm by the

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way I'd like to get you on something

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else I do because Michael you and I

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that's where we think exactly and feel

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just like as far as the spiritual

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dynamic last night on this particular

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line

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broadcasts I said you know if there is a

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God that is offended how can you how can

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you how can you blaspheme the divine it

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literally impossible you know Martin

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Luther King had that covered I mean

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someone spit on him he took out a napkin

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and wipe it off and said excuse me sir I

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think this belongs to you

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maybe the divine a little more credence

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then what we do is if the divine could

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ever be offended by a human friend

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you'll never make the divine of Slade to

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humans behavior right it's it's it's

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kind of preposterous I understand it

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like I said you know it's nice to to

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practice being understanding to people

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and there's strange relationships with

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God there's a there's a saying and I

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think you'll be able to relate to this

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you know scriptures tell us God made man

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in his own image but what has happened

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his man now makes God in His image we

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make God in our own image we make God

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like a parent like a dad to be afraid of

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a mom who's not present or whatever so

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that's saying and and man made God in

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His own image it you know I use that

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often and people will go WOW you know

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that's that's powerful that's deep when

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you think about it man-made God it's

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like God made us in His image and we

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return the favor you know so we decided

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to make God what we want God to be

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rather than really the allowing and

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understanding of what Spirit means

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within us so we kind of put this box

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together in our hearts and souls you can

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say we want everything to fit that I

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want you to fit that I want partners to

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fit that I want my children to fit that

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but incidentally that saying and

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man-made God in his own image

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was I think I remember that from the 70s

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it was on Jethro Tull's Aqualung how

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about my interview with him the other

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day and it was just Joyce he broke out

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his flute and he started talking about

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how he can play very nice and he played

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this nice little piece this little

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fanfare and he said but I like to play

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dirty he started doing some growly

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inside the flute it was this really made

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the ear dude so you're a musician as

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well is that right no no I can I can

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find notes and play around and take her

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up but no I'm I'm not a trained musician

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don't have that talent Michael were you

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talking about just a minute ago about

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painting God in our image creating God

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in our image would you agree with the

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idea that how we see the world and how

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we think things should happen in the

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world is how we think God sees us for

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example if we believe in someone needing

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to be punished somewhere inside we're

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believing in a punishing God if we

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believe on the outside world

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there's no abundance to be had we

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believe that God does not provide and so

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we project everything onto it is that

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what you're saying but differently yeah

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and it's you just said it really

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beautifully it's called projection right

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we we project our image onto God we

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project everything but the truth is

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we're we're ultimately whatever issues

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we have with God and with ourselves we

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project outside so when we think people

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are mean to us and this is very I want

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to be very careful about saying this

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because when we're talking about these

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spiritual tools the third one I would

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name has to do with responsibility and

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and this is important because when if I

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say when weird mistreated in the outside

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world it's it's what we think what God

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wants to do to us or or how harsh were

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on ourselves we are on ourselves but

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saying that can really hurt feelings for

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some because they'll say look I was born

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and I was abused as a child it's hard

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for that person to really understand the

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concept we just shared but it's not

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meant offensively like that and it's not

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meant to blame like if a person's abused

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it doesn't mean you've done something

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wrong per se but it does mean I would I

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would say this when a person is born

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into a world and experiences a lot of

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abuses somehow the soul of that person

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also believes that they're flawed and

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they could be could be manifesting those

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kinds of events in their lives to mirror

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to them how hard they are in themselves

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maybe they're you know just gonna use an

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example it's not meant to target anybody

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but maybe if a person was brought up in

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a religion of fundamental religion

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whether it's Judaism Christianity or the

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Catholicism and all that

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whatever let's say a fundamental

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religion or a fundamental very

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traditional culture and they were really

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that was really beat into them their

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religion and whatever and God's gonna

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get you God's gonna get you okay let's

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say that but one person lives like that

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in previous lifetime now picture that

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person incarnate Segen why would it be

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impossible that they would carry some of

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those beliefs in and then have them

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mirrored to them now the good news is

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that it being mirrored has a purpose

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which is to get past it

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not to do it again you know it's more

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like spirit is saying I'm encouraging us

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encouraging you to now move past that so

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you don't interpret me God as being this

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harsh vindictive thing so why don't you

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list lifetime look at it let it go and

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find love instead so there's our other

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option so Michael you and I many people

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of the like we understand the concept

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not to cop well the idea of God and who

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it is truly and what it is where it is

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and who is who it is and so when it

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comes to our time of passing you know I

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get to this place and I see a light I

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can't get there fast enough so to speak

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right and then you take someone as you

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mentioned from a fundamental background

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whatever that background may be they

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believe in such a dogmatic view that if

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I you know when I pass because I'm a

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born sinner the last thing I want to do

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is go near this light that is planning

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to throw me in a pit of fire and someone

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they in that moment because of no time

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and no no physicality time begins to

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manifest immediately so they begin to

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fall into this spiritual fetal position

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of guilt and they can end up in a lower

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astral plane where they will get plenty

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of the punishment that they may feel

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that they do right that's exactly right

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people will well we're co-creating a

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reality we're co-creating the universe

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the universe they say is still being

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created but it's being created because

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we're still creating it but the universe

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including our personal lives are most

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almost you know closed surroundings to

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the most vast parts of the universe the

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universe is and our life is being

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co-created by us so to use like us in a

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sort of a way quantum physics as an

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example my world what I see outside is a

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hologram of me inside so what I see

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though is a is a collision of two things

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so here comes here comes my reality and

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then here comes our reality and when

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those two collide they become right here

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where the fingers engage or overlap

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becomes the material universe so my

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thoughts and consciousness our thoughts

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and consciousness so it's not just mine

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it's ours as well we're watching the

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show right now and what does the show

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we're experiencing or listening to I'm

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here contributing but so are we

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because there's me and us there's you

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and us there's the listener and us

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we're co-creating this and so literally

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and figuratively because let's say for

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example somebody writes in a question

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they're contributing to it that's more

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blunt more blatant but there's also just

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with somebody just watching or listening

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their thoughts have already gone into my

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mind in your mind and all of our minds

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that are watching listening co-creating

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what we're gonna say even though it's it

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seems impossible you go well they're

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just talking and doing a show how could

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they hear my thoughts or whatever but it

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it's true it happens kind of like a you

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know a sci-fi kind of a movie where

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somebody realizes as they're talking you

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know like could even be looked at like

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Horton The Who right you know you're

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you're sitting there talking and you

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start hearing someone else contribute to

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the conversation well who is that person

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well it's this little being that says

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that it's on and you know in another

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world on the head of a flower it's kind

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of like that where these these waves and

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streams of thought and questions are

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they're not just but just people calling

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in and not just people writing in when I

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do talks on that sacred services for

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people are in spiritual centers I've

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learned to explain because they'll say

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WOW Michael you you're you're like

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speaking directly to me like they they

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say in a way I've never heard before

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like

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I'm thinking specific thoughts going on

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in my life I sat down and you went right

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to the exact same wording how does that

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happen and I can say well because I'm

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wonderful

544
00:22:37,109 --> 00:22:34,599
and amazing at that you know but the

545
00:22:38,940 --> 00:22:37,119
truth what I share with people is it's

546
00:22:42,719 --> 00:22:38,950
not about like a I don't sit around

547
00:22:45,570 --> 00:22:42,729
developing a skill on how to you know

548
00:22:47,190 --> 00:22:45,580
read somebody's mind or read their aura

549
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:47,200
per se even though that's all valid I'm

550
00:22:52,499 --> 00:22:49,210
saying I'm saying I don't sit there and

551
00:22:54,690 --> 00:22:52,509
try to read 100 and 200 and 500 and 800

552
00:22:58,169 --> 00:22:54,700
you know people in the room but what I

553
00:23:00,989 --> 00:22:58,179
do is first surrender to the divine in

554
00:23:03,570 --> 00:23:00,999
consciousness then you know and that is

555
00:23:05,339 --> 00:23:03,580
opening myself up but when that happens

556
00:23:07,139 --> 00:23:05,349
when I connect with spirit just as most

557
00:23:09,209 --> 00:23:07,149
people like you would know and when we

558
00:23:11,039 --> 00:23:09,219
connect with spirit we open ourselves up

559
00:23:13,229 --> 00:23:11,049
we realize the more we connect with

560
00:23:15,419 --> 00:23:13,239
spirit and our true selves we're

561
00:23:17,639 --> 00:23:15,429
actually one with all so if I'm one with

562
00:23:20,070 --> 00:23:17,649
all how is it that I could not hear the

563
00:23:22,019 --> 00:23:20,080
voices the feelings and stuff going on

564
00:23:23,579 --> 00:23:22,029
in an audience you know we don't want to

565
00:23:25,229 --> 00:23:23,589
be overly sympathetic and you start

566
00:23:27,570 --> 00:23:25,239
picking up all the stuff of everyone

567
00:23:29,820 --> 00:23:27,580
that's a little hyper stimulating but

568
00:23:32,339 --> 00:23:29,830
it's really beautiful because what makes

569
00:23:35,159 --> 00:23:32,349
an intuitive the best intuitive is not

570
00:23:37,469 --> 00:23:35,169
the technique it's the love of the other

571
00:23:39,719 --> 00:23:37,479
people because love will give you the

572
00:23:41,759 --> 00:23:39,729
information they need to hear so it's

573
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:41,769
the love of the people not just while

574
00:23:46,409 --> 00:23:43,570
I'm amazing and I have a skill and

575
00:23:48,570 --> 00:23:46,419
you'll pay me for it it's more like how

576
00:23:50,789 --> 00:23:48,580
would I not know what's going on for you

577
00:23:53,129 --> 00:23:50,799
if you're my partner you're my lover

578
00:23:55,139 --> 00:23:53,139
you're my the audience you're my

579
00:23:56,369 --> 00:23:55,149
children you know how would we not know

580
00:23:58,739 --> 00:23:56,379
what each other wants and that's why

581
00:24:01,320 --> 00:23:58,749
when I when people talk about trying to

582
00:24:03,089 --> 00:24:01,330
fight to create a better world I'm one

583
00:24:06,629 --> 00:24:03,099
person that irritates people because I

584
00:24:08,549 --> 00:24:06,639
live I will say it'll never work fix the

585
00:24:10,859 --> 00:24:08,559
world with the same mind that created it

586
00:24:13,649 --> 00:24:10,869
it just doesn't work that way yeah so

587
00:24:17,639 --> 00:24:13,659
vanity right we have to we have to

588
00:24:19,169 --> 00:24:17,649
access a higher consciousness and bring

589
00:24:21,779 --> 00:24:19,179
that to the world so you're not going to

590
00:24:23,190 --> 00:24:21,789
fight to save the whales you have to

591
00:24:25,169 --> 00:24:23,200
love the wells and you have to love the

592
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:25,179
people that kill the wells and when

593
00:24:30,329 --> 00:24:27,369
there's enough young people those if

594
00:24:32,039 --> 00:24:30,339
you're include here the whales and here

595
00:24:34,649 --> 00:24:32,049
are the people killing the well and if I

596
00:24:35,490 --> 00:24:34,659
include both of them in my head in my

597
00:24:37,649 --> 00:24:35,500
mind

598
00:24:39,810 --> 00:24:37,659
in the state of love both will be at

599
00:24:42,990 --> 00:24:39,820
peace and one could not harm another so

600
00:24:45,120 --> 00:24:43,000
it's by remember my love and our love

601
00:24:48,210 --> 00:24:45,130
because there's a me and there's a week

602
00:24:50,250 --> 00:24:48,220
and those two co-create the universe as

603
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:50,260
we know at the world as we know it so

604
00:24:55,020 --> 00:24:52,210
all of that coming together we start to

605
00:24:57,120 --> 00:24:55,030
see a very very different world with the

606
00:24:58,860 --> 00:24:57,130
bottle Dr Micheal Mir dad would you give

607
00:25:00,240 --> 00:24:58,870
out your contact information so our

608
00:25:01,860 --> 00:25:00,250
listening audience can find out more

609
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:01,870
about you and the awesome powerful work

610
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:03,250
you're doing around this globe sir

611
00:25:08,220 --> 00:25:06,490
yes well my website primarily is the

612
00:25:12,210 --> 00:25:08,230
source uh I have a Facebook page a

613
00:25:15,510 --> 00:25:12,220
public page and Michael Muir dad Mir da

614
00:25:18,390 --> 00:25:15,520
d and I have a website Michael Muir dad

615
00:25:21,090 --> 00:25:18,400
calm and it's got you know everything on

616
00:25:23,430 --> 00:25:21,100
it articles books supplies you know

617
00:25:25,470 --> 00:25:23,440
those kinds of things also on my on

618
00:25:27,510 --> 00:25:25,480
youtube there's a page but also Facebook

619
00:25:29,279 --> 00:25:27,520
but YouTube you know they have a

620
00:25:30,810 --> 00:25:29,289
catalogs now libraries now where you

621
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:30,820
could just go watch a hundred different

622
00:25:36,630 --> 00:25:34,450
talks and I can say you know I don't

623
00:25:40,140 --> 00:25:36,640
dilly-dally like you wouldn't go and

624
00:25:44,970 --> 00:25:40,150
watch a talk of mine that would be kind

625
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:44,980
of padded yeah sugar coating you know

626
00:25:49,919 --> 00:25:46,090
you're gonna hear something you go

627
00:25:52,260 --> 00:25:49,929
somewhere if the topic is on boundaries

628
00:25:54,360 --> 00:25:52,270
or codependence you're gonna you're

629
00:25:56,730 --> 00:25:54,370
gonna it's a study you're gonna learn it

630
00:25:58,289 --> 00:25:56,740
and maybe understand it more than most

631
00:25:59,820 --> 00:25:58,299
people that claim to be experts and the

632
00:26:01,409 --> 00:25:59,830
dr. Michael you would some just a little

633
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:01,419
bit ago about if you want to save the

634
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:02,650
whales you don't love the whales and

635
00:26:06,149 --> 00:26:04,450
hate the people doing the killing so and

636
00:26:07,770 --> 00:26:06,159
I say this all the time you know you can

637
00:26:09,899 --> 00:26:07,780
focus you can water the weed you can

638
00:26:11,909 --> 00:26:09,909
water the plant and if you want

639
00:26:13,649 --> 00:26:11,919
something you notice you know I give you

640
00:26:14,909 --> 00:26:13,659
a big high five you saying I no longer

641
00:26:16,350 --> 00:26:14,919
choose to hang around these people

642
00:26:18,779 --> 00:26:16,360
that's a great idea

643
00:26:20,220 --> 00:26:18,789
but instead turn to the plant and begin

644
00:26:22,590 --> 00:26:20,230
to give it the attention it needs by

645
00:26:25,110 --> 00:26:22,600
saying this is now what I choose and

646
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:25,120
also we were talking about I heard you

647
00:26:28,590 --> 00:26:26,650
mention something a bit ago when we're

648
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:28,600
talking about projection what are you

649
00:26:34,140 --> 00:26:30,850
thoughts about people who are always

650
00:26:36,210 --> 00:26:34,150
concerned what other people think and do

651
00:26:37,770 --> 00:26:36,220
you see that as a form of self judgment

652
00:26:39,899 --> 00:26:37,780
that they don't want to own because I

653
00:26:41,340 --> 00:26:39,909
don't want to think these have all take

654
00:26:42,750 --> 00:26:41,350
ownership about these thoughts that I

655
00:26:44,100 --> 00:26:42,760
think about myself so I'm gonna place

656
00:26:46,470 --> 00:26:44,110
this on someone else I'm gonna project

657
00:26:47,789 --> 00:26:46,480
this outside and blame them hopefully

658
00:26:48,700 --> 00:26:47,799
that they're the ones doing the thinking

659
00:26:51,940 --> 00:26:48,710
of this

660
00:26:55,870 --> 00:26:51,950
about me yeah absolutely you know it's

661
00:26:57,820 --> 00:26:55,880
codependent for me to be concerned what

662
00:27:00,010 --> 00:26:57,830
other people think and yet I like to

663
00:27:02,350 --> 00:27:00,020
always address two sides of something

664
00:27:04,539 --> 00:27:02,360
meaning I think it's beautiful to be

665
00:27:06,370 --> 00:27:04,549
sensitive to people's needs for example

666
00:27:08,139 --> 00:27:06,380
if you're of a certain faith I don't

667
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:08,149
need to tell you you're wrong in your

668
00:27:11,980 --> 00:27:10,250
faith and that I'm right in my face

669
00:27:14,049 --> 00:27:11,990
it's nice to honor people where they're

670
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:14,059
asked and if you even if even if the

671
00:27:20,789 --> 00:27:16,610
person's not doing something say healthy

672
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:20,799
the person says well you know I really

673
00:27:27,250 --> 00:27:25,010
still like to drink and it relaxes me I

674
00:27:29,950 --> 00:27:27,260
don't say to them oh no that's an

675
00:27:31,539 --> 00:27:29,960
addiction I just say great you know how

676
00:27:33,279 --> 00:27:31,549
do you like it what do you drink no no

677
00:27:35,169 --> 00:27:33,289
what's your favorite I would I like to

678
00:27:38,139 --> 00:27:35,179
meet people at the level they're at and

679
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:38,149
start there if I'm being asked something

680
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:40,970
I don't walk around like whatever towns

681
00:27:45,370 --> 00:27:42,770
I've lived in I almost have never

682
00:27:46,990 --> 00:27:45,380
mentioned who I am or what I do it's

683
00:27:49,389 --> 00:27:47,000
kind of more covert and I like it

684
00:27:51,130 --> 00:27:49,399
because if it's evidence that I am doing

685
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:51,140
what I practicing what I preach

686
00:27:56,409 --> 00:27:53,330
meaning the town the couple of towns

687
00:27:59,230 --> 00:27:56,419
I've lived in Sedona for eight years I

688
00:28:00,610 --> 00:27:59,240
think and before that my last place of

689
00:28:03,700 --> 00:28:00,620
residence might have been twenty years

690
00:28:05,380 --> 00:28:03,710
and people in those towns never knew who

691
00:28:08,350 --> 00:28:05,390
I was they might have found out because

692
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:08,360
like in Sedona teach in a location here

693
00:28:13,180 --> 00:28:10,850
at unity of Sedona so they it's they're

694
00:28:14,710 --> 00:28:13,190
definitely they caught on they know who

695
00:28:18,549 --> 00:28:14,720
this guy is when they see me here and

696
00:28:21,549 --> 00:28:18,559
there but generally I I i see it as a

697
00:28:23,820 --> 00:28:21,559
test of my character my integrity to see

698
00:28:27,310 --> 00:28:23,830
if I can practice what I preach and so

699
00:28:29,799 --> 00:28:27,320
if I'm if I go to a store I don't tell

700
00:28:32,380 --> 00:28:29,809
them Who I am but when I leave I wonder

701
00:28:34,450 --> 00:28:32,390
have I made a difference you know in

702
00:28:36,130 --> 00:28:34,460
some way hope was I just kind there not

703
00:28:37,659 --> 00:28:36,140
because hi here's my card come and see

704
00:28:39,490 --> 00:28:37,669
me at you know I don't do any kind of

705
00:28:43,350 --> 00:28:39,500
sales pitching I don't do I'm running

706
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:43,360
for mayor I don't kiss babies if people

707
00:28:49,060 --> 00:28:45,770
people if people find me they find me

708
00:28:52,149 --> 00:28:49,070
but it's important for us all as a as a

709
00:28:55,630 --> 00:28:52,159
maturing - I'm not saying don't care

710
00:28:57,879 --> 00:28:55,640
what other people think I care but don't

711
00:29:00,700 --> 00:28:57,889
let it control you or affect you

712
00:29:01,990 --> 00:29:00,710
negatively I think all of us have been

713
00:29:03,700 --> 00:29:02,000
children if we're

714
00:29:05,530 --> 00:29:03,710
on earth we've been children at one

715
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:05,540
point and when you're a child man you're

716
00:29:10,060 --> 00:29:07,490
it's beat into you you know really drawn

717
00:29:12,580 --> 00:29:10,070
and you you you know what we say goes

718
00:29:15,370 --> 00:29:12,590
and and we're already living in a code

719
00:29:16,930 --> 00:29:15,380
dependence of doing what others say so

720
00:29:19,450 --> 00:29:16,940
we're programmed to do that so I think

721
00:29:21,700 --> 00:29:19,460
it's it's beautiful if anybody watching

722
00:29:23,230 --> 00:29:21,710
listening can come to a place of saying

723
00:29:26,350 --> 00:29:23,240
if they did are like a barometer

724
00:29:29,740 --> 00:29:26,360
checking in and you could check on how

725
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:29,750
much your work has done how much you've

726
00:29:34,510 --> 00:29:30,290
grown

727
00:29:36,670 --> 00:29:34,520
you'll be able to know partly by how

728
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:36,680
much you're able to own your own beliefs

729
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:38,930
you know and not be controlled by

730
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:40,490
somebody else now I don't believe in

731
00:29:44,740 --> 00:29:43,610
swinging the opposite the opposite of I

732
00:29:46,540 --> 00:29:44,750
was controlled

733
00:29:48,730 --> 00:29:46,550
now I'm gonna swing way over here and

734
00:29:52,060 --> 00:29:48,740
say to heck with you all I think that's

735
00:29:55,030 --> 00:29:52,070
reacting still in the middle where we

736
00:29:56,740 --> 00:29:55,040
can be and need to be it's like I'm not

737
00:29:59,020 --> 00:29:56,750
going to be over here or over here I'm

738
00:30:00,160 --> 00:29:59,030
in my Center where my beliefs are and

739
00:30:05,770 --> 00:30:00,170
I'm gonna honor that

740
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:05,780
and if people are overly hurt by that or

741
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:09,170
try to hurt me for that sometimes we do

742
00:30:13,810 --> 00:30:11,090
have to say too much water under the

743
00:30:16,420 --> 00:30:13,820
bridge and walk and let me just close

744
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:16,430
with that question with this folks that

745
00:30:20,710 --> 00:30:18,410
go through this it's important to

746
00:30:23,230 --> 00:30:20,720
understand that there's a time typically

747
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:23,240
there's there's a few stages we all go

748
00:30:27,730 --> 00:30:25,610
through to keep it simple just remember

749
00:30:30,580 --> 00:30:27,740
this a few stages there's the stage

750
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:30,590
where we are often abused and you know

751
00:30:34,330 --> 00:30:32,930
whatever in whatever form abused

752
00:30:37,660 --> 00:30:34,340
oppressed or whatever it happens to be

753
00:30:39,130 --> 00:30:37,670
the opposite extreme where often are if

754
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:39,140
it was our family that did that or a

755
00:30:44,410 --> 00:30:41,570
husband or wife that did that we often

756
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:44,420
do the opposite and we go okay that's it

757
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:46,010
nobody's ever going to control me again

758
00:30:50,950 --> 00:30:48,410
now we learn to speak up now in the

759
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:50,960
new-age community or in the psychology

760
00:30:55,210 --> 00:30:52,490
community that's called finding your

761
00:30:57,310 --> 00:30:55,220
voice that's not really finding your

762
00:30:59,920 --> 00:30:57,320
voice you've just become annoying you

763
00:31:00,430 --> 00:30:59,930
know you went from being trampled on to

764
00:31:02,890 --> 00:31:00,440
now

765
00:31:05,020 --> 00:31:02,900
overstepping and compensating by telling

766
00:31:06,730 --> 00:31:05,030
everyone around you everybody needs to

767
00:31:08,860 --> 00:31:06,740
hear what I have to say see you're

768
00:31:10,630 --> 00:31:08,870
compensating but there's a point where

769
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:10,640
it goes it we there's a per the pressure

770
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:14,690
eases and we come back to Center we need

771
00:31:18,940 --> 00:31:15,770
not say and

772
00:31:21,340 --> 00:31:18,950
there's no need I don't have to be heard

773
00:31:23,860 --> 00:31:21,350
I don't have to be seen it's quite

774
00:31:25,990 --> 00:31:23,870
beautiful I'm in my Center and you know

775
00:31:29,170 --> 00:31:26,000
so family was treating us a certain way

776
00:31:30,370 --> 00:31:29,180
we often leave family and say they need

777
00:31:32,470 --> 00:31:30,380
to learn that they can't treat me that

778
00:31:34,660 --> 00:31:32,480
way which is really healthy to do but

779
00:31:36,910 --> 00:31:34,670
it's not the end of the story the end of

780
00:31:38,860 --> 00:31:36,920
the story is when we get so centered

781
00:31:41,020 --> 00:31:38,870
that even if we were around them which

782
00:31:42,970 --> 00:31:41,030
we don't have to be but even if we were

783
00:31:45,490 --> 00:31:42,980
around them we're so strong in our

784
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:45,500
center man that we just feel immune to

785
00:31:49,870 --> 00:31:47,570
their stuff and if their stuff gets to

786
00:31:51,700 --> 00:31:49,880
be aggressive and abusive if we visit

787
00:31:53,020 --> 00:31:51,710
them we could say you know this doesn't

788
00:31:54,550 --> 00:31:53,030
seem like it's working see you in

789
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:54,560
another I'll test it all in another 10

790
00:31:58,330 --> 00:31:56,930
years you know peace out yeah we don't

791
00:32:00,160 --> 00:31:58,340
we can always love people from a

792
00:32:01,810 --> 00:32:00,170
distance something you said Michael is

793
00:32:04,030 --> 00:32:01,820
something I believed so strongly about

794
00:32:06,370 --> 00:32:04,040
being centered and I used the word being

795
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:06,380
planted being planted like a lightning

796
00:32:10,750 --> 00:32:08,450
rod for example we definitely don't want

797
00:32:12,430 --> 00:32:10,760
to be swayed by the negative well here's

798
00:32:14,350 --> 00:32:12,440
a new option for you as well don't be

799
00:32:16,660 --> 00:32:14,360
swayed by the positive positive because

800
00:32:19,690 --> 00:32:16,670
when you can become so planted and you

801
00:32:21,580 --> 00:32:19,700
can become quote the dominant tone if

802
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:21,590
you have that kind of spirituality about

803
00:32:24,850 --> 00:32:23,210
you dear Lord watch what happens to the

804
00:32:26,830 --> 00:32:24,860
room that you walk in is that being

805
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:26,840
saying what goes on inside of the

806
00:32:29,710 --> 00:32:28,490
process of Michael mere dad let's say

807
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:29,720
for example you're out and about

808
00:32:35,110 --> 00:32:32,810
wherever it may be and you meet someone

809
00:32:37,210 --> 00:32:35,120
in you know they may be going through a

810
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:37,220
dynamic without saying anything what

811
00:32:39,940 --> 00:32:38,570
happened inside of you the reason I'm

812
00:32:41,980 --> 00:32:39,950
asking this question is because Michael

813
00:32:44,110 --> 00:32:41,990
I often I play music for a living so I'm

814
00:32:45,490 --> 00:32:44,120
always out networking with people and

815
00:32:48,790 --> 00:32:45,500
someone who introduces me to John or

816
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:48,800
gildo and I find a quality about this

817
00:32:53,620 --> 00:32:51,530
person via their voice a dialect I've

818
00:32:55,210 --> 00:32:53,630
hinted around their neck just a physical

819
00:32:56,590 --> 00:32:55,220
beautiful appearance or just whatever it

820
00:32:58,210 --> 00:32:56,600
is that I find that it's just beautiful

821
00:32:59,920 --> 00:32:58,220
that this person who's he moaning and I

822
00:33:02,410 --> 00:32:59,930
begin to hyper focus on I begin to

823
00:33:04,390 --> 00:33:02,420
massage it and I use it as a doorway for

824
00:33:07,860 --> 00:33:04,400
me to connect your Creator and when I

825
00:33:10,810 --> 00:33:07,870
begin to do this dynamic do this thing I

826
00:33:12,580 --> 00:33:10,820
literally see God step up and out of

827
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:12,590
this person right in front of my face

828
00:33:17,890 --> 00:33:15,170
because I'm so focused on the beauty of

829
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:17,900
this person at the moment what are your

830
00:33:21,670 --> 00:33:19,490
thoughts what happens to you inside of

831
00:33:22,870 --> 00:33:21,680
you when you're going through the

832
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:22,880
process of meeting someone for the first

833
00:33:26,830 --> 00:33:25,010
time are you speaking to them on many

834
00:33:29,260 --> 00:33:26,840
different levels oh really

835
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:29,270
yeah it's really many levels because the

836
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:32,210
but the main level the most common go-to

837
00:33:39,910 --> 00:33:35,930
thing that I do is connect everything's

838
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:39,920
about for me is about connecting so if a

839
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:41,450
person and this is kind of funny because

840
00:33:45,910 --> 00:33:43,370
I've shared stories like this when I've

841
00:33:48,340 --> 00:33:45,920
done some some talks and I sometimes

842
00:33:50,980 --> 00:33:48,350
share these stories but you know for

843
00:33:53,710 --> 00:33:50,990
example I driving down the street and I

844
00:33:55,870 --> 00:33:53,720
see let's say I see a yard sale or

845
00:33:58,090 --> 00:33:55,880
something and I stop and go there

846
00:34:00,660 --> 00:33:58,100
anything interesting you know I stop now

847
00:34:04,090 --> 00:34:00,670
at this one time I stopped at this place

848
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:04,100
there was a guy there and he just

849
00:34:07,930 --> 00:34:06,530
approached me and started talking now

850
00:34:10,149 --> 00:34:07,940
what are we going to talk about we got

851
00:34:13,750 --> 00:34:10,159
to talk about spirit God love

852
00:34:17,100 --> 00:34:13,760
forgiveness you know cool things like

853
00:34:24,850 --> 00:34:17,110
that no he starts talking to me about

854
00:34:27,580 --> 00:34:24,860
golf you know wow like I mean to me that

855
00:34:29,020 --> 00:34:27,590
no offense to golfers I'm saying for me

856
00:34:31,389 --> 00:34:29,030
personally I know nothing about it

857
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:31,399
so this could have been like listening

858
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:35,050
to bowling on the radio okay I mean

859
00:34:42,370 --> 00:34:39,890
somehow less interesting but my job was

860
00:34:44,530 --> 00:34:42,380
to find something about it of interest

861
00:34:46,330 --> 00:34:44,540
because he's in my life not to turn me

862
00:34:48,730 --> 00:34:46,340
into a golfer but I'm saying how do you

863
00:34:50,620 --> 00:34:48,740
connect with the person see that's what

864
00:34:53,350 --> 00:34:50,630
I meant earlier sometimes we have our

865
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:53,360
thing and then we say I'm not gonna do

866
00:34:57,340 --> 00:34:55,370
anything else that anybody else wants me

867
00:34:59,620 --> 00:34:57,350
to do and we swing way over here work we

868
00:35:01,090 --> 00:34:59,630
refuse to meet them at their level we're

869
00:35:03,100 --> 00:35:01,100
you know we're gonna do it our way

870
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:03,110
that's still a reaction so what's

871
00:35:08,470 --> 00:35:05,210
beautiful is when we really truly grow

872
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:08,480
in the middle somewhere we can find a

873
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:11,210
way to connect with anybody you know we

874
00:35:17,980 --> 00:35:13,970
don't lose patience a quick example

875
00:35:20,890 --> 00:35:17,990
again that individual I I just

876
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:20,900
remembered a name or two hearing it

877
00:35:24,190 --> 00:35:22,610
somewhere about golfers and I would

878
00:35:26,830 --> 00:35:24,200
throw in that name into the conversation

879
00:35:29,230 --> 00:35:26,840
and let them talk and this guy just

880
00:35:31,750 --> 00:35:29,240
glowed because he could talk about golf

881
00:35:34,090 --> 00:35:31,760
and he could educate this kid above my

882
00:35:36,820 --> 00:35:34,100
kid I'm like sixty but you know he can

883
00:35:40,150 --> 00:35:36,830
educate this younger guy than him about

884
00:35:41,990 --> 00:35:40,160
golf and so it made his day and that is

885
00:35:44,460 --> 00:35:42,000
God in action like I

886
00:35:46,650 --> 00:35:44,470
Minoo spirit isn't always about just

887
00:35:48,780 --> 00:35:46,660
when people start chanting together it's

888
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:48,790
all spirit that's right it's all springy

889
00:35:52,829 --> 00:35:50,290
for example Michael are you talking

890
00:35:54,690 --> 00:35:52,839
about this golfer you know I may not

891
00:35:56,339 --> 00:35:54,700
necessarily be into the field whatever

892
00:35:58,680 --> 00:35:56,349
dynamic you're into in your life would

893
00:36:01,230 --> 00:35:58,690
brings you joy but what I do is find I

894
00:36:02,700 --> 00:36:01,240
find out why it illuminates you and

895
00:36:04,710 --> 00:36:02,710
that's where I'm gonna meet you

896
00:36:07,130 --> 00:36:04,720
is there any illumination in the love of

897
00:36:10,980 --> 00:36:07,140
what you're doing right you see because

898
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:10,990
separation is the belief once we believe

899
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:14,650
in separation or do anything to add to

900
00:36:18,839 --> 00:36:16,690
the concept of separation we're adding

901
00:36:20,670 --> 00:36:18,849
to the separation of God separation from

902
00:36:23,190 --> 00:36:20,680
ourselves separation from each other

903
00:36:26,250 --> 00:36:23,200
it's all going to blast together but the

904
00:36:28,049 --> 00:36:26,260
opposite is connection so if you're a

905
00:36:30,809 --> 00:36:28,059
counselor a psychic

906
00:36:33,089 --> 00:36:30,819
you don't just try to wow them with your

907
00:36:34,950 --> 00:36:33,099
skills but instead you meet them that's

908
00:36:37,430 --> 00:36:34,960
why I said when I'm teaching I'm

909
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:37,440
connecting with spirit but I'm also

910
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:39,490
connecting with the people there and

911
00:36:44,819 --> 00:36:41,890
we're all then going to dance and you

912
00:36:47,099 --> 00:36:44,829
mentioned being a musician I always

913
00:36:49,349 --> 00:36:47,109
remember her Cat Stevens his last live

914
00:36:51,809 --> 00:36:49,359
performance before he disappeared for

915
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:51,819
years his last life performance that I

916
00:36:55,740 --> 00:36:53,650
knew about was you know he started

917
00:36:58,230 --> 00:36:55,750
playing and at some point he just got

918
00:37:00,270 --> 00:36:58,240
ticked off he threw a tantrum and he

919
00:37:01,710 --> 00:37:00,280
unplugged his guitar and just threw it

920
00:37:04,170 --> 00:37:01,720
all down and walked off the stage and

921
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:04,180
wasn't seen for years that see that was

922
00:37:09,210 --> 00:37:06,970
an act of selfishness because he wasn't

923
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:09,220
saying what does the audience was anyway

924
00:37:12,839 --> 00:37:10,930
what does what do they want so a

925
00:37:14,220 --> 00:37:12,849
musician no offense to the ones that do

926
00:37:17,069 --> 00:37:14,230
this but a musician who plays for

927
00:37:18,990 --> 00:37:17,079
themselves might as well just sit in

928
00:37:20,579 --> 00:37:19,000
their room play you know cuz but to me

929
00:37:22,890 --> 00:37:20,589
that can be a very selfish act

930
00:37:25,140 --> 00:37:22,900
I'm not saying betray yourself but I'm

931
00:37:27,569 --> 00:37:25,150
saying don't just play for yourself if

932
00:37:29,579 --> 00:37:27,579
those people are there to listen whether

933
00:37:31,620 --> 00:37:29,589
they're paying or not if they're there

934
00:37:33,990 --> 00:37:31,630
we should consider them and that's back

935
00:37:35,579 --> 00:37:34,000
to your question which is how much do an

936
00:37:37,650 --> 00:37:35,589
away one of your questions which is how

937
00:37:40,170 --> 00:37:37,660
much do we let other people affect us as

938
00:37:42,630 --> 00:37:40,180
long as the effect is for love's purpose

939
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:42,640
as long as the effect is because I care

940
00:37:45,660 --> 00:37:44,290
about you guys I would like to know what

941
00:37:49,260 --> 00:37:45,670
you're looking for would you like me to

942
00:37:50,970 --> 00:37:49,270
play that particular song you know there

943
00:37:53,150 --> 00:37:50,980
that's what they're there for you know

944
00:37:55,089 --> 00:37:53,160
look at Paul McCartney the dude is like

945
00:37:58,239 --> 00:37:55,099
103 years old he

946
00:38:01,539 --> 00:37:58,249
Yeah right he goes on tour anyplace for

947
00:38:04,539 --> 00:38:01,549
three and more hours because he likes

948
00:38:06,789 --> 00:38:04,549
doing it but he knows you folks want to

949
00:38:09,549 --> 00:38:06,799
hear certain songs he doesn't say you're

950
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:09,559
lucky to even see me I'm a Beatle let me

951
00:38:12,940 --> 00:38:11,450
just play half of one song I'll leave

952
00:38:15,069 --> 00:38:12,950
and you guys can give me a million

953
00:38:17,829 --> 00:38:15,079
dollars he doesn't do that it's more

954
00:38:19,690 --> 00:38:17,839
like this is what they want you know and

955
00:38:22,660 --> 00:38:19,700
I'm not saying we owe it to them but

956
00:38:25,269 --> 00:38:22,670
spiritually we do meaning if we if we

957
00:38:27,009 --> 00:38:25,279
really love people then we would make

958
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:27,019
the effort to understand where they're

959
00:38:29,319 --> 00:38:27,650
coming from

960
00:38:30,789 --> 00:38:29,329
so when even when somebody has a

961
00:38:33,009 --> 00:38:30,799
challenge and this is gonna get tricky

962
00:38:35,289 --> 00:38:33,019
here for a second but even when someone

963
00:38:36,700 --> 00:38:35,299
has a challenge try to listen and say

964
00:38:39,759 --> 00:38:36,710
what's going on how can I help

965
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:39,769
now they go ahead and share watch

966
00:38:45,999 --> 00:38:42,410
yourselves because when you when you

967
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:46,009
work with them and you realize you you

968
00:38:50,109 --> 00:38:47,930
are trying to offer help you're trying

969
00:38:51,519 --> 00:38:50,119
to listen but it's never enough they

970
00:38:52,779 --> 00:38:51,529
still want to talk they still want to

971
00:38:54,670 --> 00:38:52,789
yell they still want to complain these

972
00:38:57,069 --> 00:38:54,680
don't want to blame you can say okay

973
00:38:59,620 --> 00:38:57,079
round two I hear what you're saying and

974
00:39:02,289 --> 00:38:59,630
you can try a second time but how many

975
00:39:04,690 --> 00:39:02,299
times should you let it go on and on and

976
00:39:07,569 --> 00:39:04,700
here's my point when you see that the

977
00:39:09,839 --> 00:39:07,579
people don't want to really change they

978
00:39:12,130 --> 00:39:09,849
don't really want they just want to vent

979
00:39:13,839 --> 00:39:12,140
you're now adding to the problem by

980
00:39:17,079 --> 00:39:13,849
losing to them because you're enabling

981
00:39:18,690 --> 00:39:17,089
their venting there's a point where we

982
00:39:22,180 --> 00:39:18,700
have to draw the line and say you know I

983
00:39:23,349 --> 00:39:22,190
don't think you should say listen seems

984
00:39:25,359 --> 00:39:23,359
to me like you don't even want to heal

985
00:39:27,099 --> 00:39:25,369
so get lost because that will cause more

986
00:39:28,870 --> 00:39:27,109
problem but what you can say is it

987
00:39:31,150 --> 00:39:28,880
doesn't seem like I'm the person that

988
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:31,160
can help you with that that's the truth

989
00:39:37,059 --> 00:39:33,890
right see it's tactful love to me is

990
00:39:38,950 --> 00:39:37,069
always tactful so I would say you know

991
00:39:40,779 --> 00:39:38,960
wow you know I'd love to help but it

992
00:39:42,969 --> 00:39:40,789
doesn't seem like I'm the person that

993
00:39:45,489 --> 00:39:42,979
could be you know can help you that's a

994
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:45,499
very beautiful way of saying I've tried

995
00:39:48,249 --> 00:39:47,690
several times and I don't care you're my

996
00:39:50,620 --> 00:39:48,259
partner

997
00:39:52,420 --> 00:39:50,630
even if you're my own child if I have

998
00:39:55,690 --> 00:39:52,430
tried several times to work with you and

999
00:39:58,059 --> 00:39:55,700
it's not working I watch for signs if

1000
00:40:01,450 --> 00:39:58,069
we're not getting anywhere or if we're

1001
00:40:03,700 --> 00:40:01,460
we are he is getting worse that's not a

1002
00:40:06,700 --> 00:40:03,710
good sign so what I would tell folks is

1003
00:40:08,240 --> 00:40:06,710
that becomes a negative control

1004
00:40:10,610 --> 00:40:08,250
experience

1005
00:40:11,510 --> 00:40:10,620
you where they're trying to control the

1006
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:11,520
situation

1007
00:40:16,370 --> 00:40:14,130
but for negative you know ends rather

1008
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:16,380
than listen give me just a minute to

1009
00:40:20,450 --> 00:40:18,450
control the conversation I would like to

1010
00:40:22,910 --> 00:40:20,460
share my feelings and you say as a

1011
00:40:24,650 --> 00:40:22,920
healer counselor go ahead it's you have

1012
00:40:26,810 --> 00:40:24,660
the floor that's giving a positive

1013
00:40:27,890 --> 00:40:26,820
control to them now they have control

1014
00:40:31,070 --> 00:40:27,900
they can share share share share share

1015
00:40:32,630 --> 00:40:31,080
but there's a point where the the part

1016
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:32,640
of them that doesn't really want to heal

1017
00:40:37,910 --> 00:40:35,490
starts hooking you into their game and

1018
00:40:41,540 --> 00:40:37,920
that's called negative control and that

1019
00:40:44,390 --> 00:40:41,550
situation will not end in healing so we

1020
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:44,400
have to say well for the sake of my own

1021
00:40:48,260 --> 00:40:46,530
sanity I'm going to continue moving in

1022
00:40:50,690 --> 00:40:48,270
that direction of healing meaning

1023
00:40:53,270 --> 00:40:50,700
finding peace in this situation but it

1024
00:40:55,610 --> 00:40:53,280
doesn't seem like my words or comments

1025
00:40:57,530 --> 00:40:55,620
or whatever it is are helping you so why

1026
00:40:59,030 --> 00:40:57,540
don't we break it off and if I can

1027
00:41:00,650 --> 00:40:59,040
recommend somebody let me know or

1028
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:00,660
something like that we have to find our

1029
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:02,850
Center again whenever we start to

1030
00:41:07,340 --> 00:41:05,010
deviate from it or when people try to

1031
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:07,350
push and pull us from Michael from the

1032
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:09,330
chat room we have a question from VD

1033
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:11,010
when my dear friend she says are there

1034
00:41:16,820 --> 00:41:12,450
good ways to forgive ourselves for

1035
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:16,830
letting go of bad connections say that

1036
00:41:22,010 --> 00:41:20,130
again or they're good ways to forgive

1037
00:41:25,910 --> 00:41:22,020
ourselves for letting go of bad

1038
00:41:28,790 --> 00:41:25,920
connections well here's a very practical

1039
00:41:32,180 --> 00:41:28,800
answer to that first of all you let go

1040
00:41:34,220 --> 00:41:32,190
of a connection all right I mean the

1041
00:41:36,500 --> 00:41:34,230
most obvious thing is it is not the will

1042
00:41:38,630 --> 00:41:36,510
of God that you hold on to that against

1043
00:41:40,220 --> 00:41:38,640
yourself so and but if that's not a good

1044
00:41:42,470 --> 00:41:40,230
enough reason without X values unlike

1045
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:42,480
this yeah if that's not enough reason

1046
00:41:47,060 --> 00:41:44,130
because sometimes it's not you know we

1047
00:41:50,810 --> 00:41:47,070
still hurt let me let me tell you ask

1048
00:41:53,390 --> 00:41:50,820
yourself this question someone you

1049
00:41:56,900 --> 00:41:53,400
parted ways let me ask you you know ask

1050
00:41:59,060 --> 00:41:56,910
yourself did you do what you could you

1051
00:42:00,800 --> 00:41:59,070
know did you do what you could to bring

1052
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:00,810
it to peace or to help the situation or

1053
00:42:06,620 --> 00:42:03,450
or create a better relationship okay

1054
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:06,630
let's say you did secondly when you

1055
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:09,810
parted ways did you purposefully try to

1056
00:42:14,390 --> 00:42:12,450
hurt them because if you did you should

1057
00:42:16,610 --> 00:42:14,400
feel guilty and bad about it because

1058
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:16,620
you're you did something hurtful so you

1059
00:42:20,540 --> 00:42:18,570
should try to heal and repent and and

1060
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:20,550
ask for forgiveness or or whatever you

1061
00:42:23,660 --> 00:42:21,450
want to call anything

1062
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:23,670
that but you know most of us what I'm

1063
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:26,010
saying is most of us when we end things

1064
00:42:30,290 --> 00:42:27,570
like that it is not our intention to

1065
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:30,300
hurt so if you did not intend to hurt

1066
00:42:34,609 --> 00:42:31,890
somebody but you happen to still feel

1067
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:34,619
hurt I want you to tell yourself since I

1068
00:42:38,270 --> 00:42:36,210
know I did what I could to help the

1069
00:42:41,540 --> 00:42:38,280
situation and I know I didn't

1070
00:42:43,700 --> 00:42:41,550
purposefully cause harm there's nothing

1071
00:42:46,270 --> 00:42:43,710
to feel guilty about and then here's

1072
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:46,280
another angle in regard to forgiveness

1073
00:42:51,260 --> 00:42:49,170
forgiveness is practiced in a lot of

1074
00:42:53,540 --> 00:42:51,270
ways you know I wrote the book on love

1075
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:53,550
and forgiveness it's called the book of

1076
00:42:57,349 --> 00:42:55,530
love and forgiveness but here's the

1077
00:43:01,069 --> 00:42:57,359
simplest technique out of all everything

1078
00:43:03,290 --> 00:43:01,079
in there first never hate anyone

1079
00:43:05,450 --> 00:43:03,300
including yourself so when you're asking

1080
00:43:08,210 --> 00:43:05,460
about self forgiveness I would say to

1081
00:43:09,710 --> 00:43:08,220
yourself I refuse to hate myself

1082
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:09,720
I refuse to hate the other person or

1083
00:43:14,300 --> 00:43:12,690
anyone number 1 - are there any lessons

1084
00:43:15,890 --> 00:43:14,310
I can learn from this are there lessons

1085
00:43:18,470 --> 00:43:15,900
you can learn from not letting go

1086
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:18,480
quicker or more easily are there lessons

1087
00:43:24,050 --> 00:43:21,570
you can learn about well gee I maybe I

1088
00:43:25,670 --> 00:43:24,060
was a little impatient when I ended it I

1089
00:43:27,950 --> 00:43:25,680
might have been too abrupt I might not

1090
00:43:29,390 --> 00:43:27,960
have communicated clearly I think I can

1091
00:43:31,220 --> 00:43:29,400
learn from that learning from it means

1092
00:43:33,859 --> 00:43:31,230
you're good to go like as long as you

1093
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:33,869
extracted a lesson from it good job and

1094
00:43:40,490 --> 00:43:38,010
the third thing is no matter who it is

1095
00:43:42,319 --> 00:43:40,500
and what they've done see I'm not going

1096
00:43:43,940 --> 00:43:42,329
to give you the speech about gee you

1097
00:43:46,370 --> 00:43:43,950
should love them if somebody's kicking

1098
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:46,380
you around and hurting you and abusing

1099
00:43:50,300 --> 00:43:48,210
you and your children I'm not telling

1100
00:43:53,599 --> 00:43:50,310
you you have to pretend to like them I'm

1101
00:43:54,650 --> 00:43:53,609
saying this refuse to hate them ask what

1102
00:43:58,970 --> 00:43:54,660
you can learn from the situation

1103
00:44:01,490 --> 00:43:58,980
whatever it is and third try to affirm

1104
00:44:03,319 --> 00:44:01,500
that in some way somewhere in that

1105
00:44:06,109 --> 00:44:03,329
person there is a light made in God's

1106
00:44:08,089 --> 00:44:06,119
image you don't have to know that light

1107
00:44:09,890 --> 00:44:08,099
you you don't have to find that light

1108
00:44:11,990 --> 00:44:09,900
you don't have to figure out why it's so

1109
00:44:15,079 --> 00:44:12,000
obscured and not visible all you have to

1110
00:44:16,790 --> 00:44:15,089
do is affirm isn't this funny my

1111
00:44:19,130 --> 00:44:16,800
experience with that person

1112
00:44:21,230 --> 00:44:19,140
I refuse to hate them I will learn what

1113
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:21,240
I can from this but I'm also going to

1114
00:44:27,500 --> 00:44:23,130
affirm that in them I don't care who it

1115
00:44:29,300 --> 00:44:27,510
is in that person there is a light made

1116
00:44:30,950 --> 00:44:29,310
in God's image and here's the beautiful

1117
00:44:33,410 --> 00:44:30,960
part cuz it's almost where we started a

1118
00:44:35,660 --> 00:44:33,420
while ago one of your comments and

1119
00:44:38,359 --> 00:44:35,670
questions that light is in that

1120
00:44:40,910 --> 00:44:38,369
and if I am not willing to say that that

1121
00:44:42,770 --> 00:44:40,920
person whomever it is or whatever they

1122
00:44:45,020 --> 00:44:42,780
did if I'm gonna say that somebody is

1123
00:44:47,780 --> 00:44:45,030
not capable of having the light of God

1124
00:44:49,910 --> 00:44:47,790
in them I have now drawn the line as to

1125
00:44:52,490 --> 00:44:49,920
how far I can grow because I just

1126
00:44:55,549 --> 00:44:52,500
affirmed my limit universe and will come

1127
00:44:57,470 --> 00:44:55,559
back around what's that and the lesson

1128
00:45:00,319 --> 00:44:57,480
will come back around yeah yeah until

1129
00:45:04,549 --> 00:45:00,329
until we recognize there there is nobody

1130
00:45:07,190 --> 00:45:04,559
no alien no being no angel or demon that

1131
00:45:09,559 --> 00:45:07,200
doesn't have a spark of light somewhere

1132
00:45:11,329 --> 00:45:09,569
I'm not saying that people are coming

1133
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:11,339
from that light I'm not saying the

1134
00:45:16,940 --> 00:45:14,130
actions of mass murderers or or

1135
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:16,950
Psychopaths of megalomaniacs hitlers and

1136
00:45:21,950 --> 00:45:19,410
whatever or even just mean parents I'm

1137
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:21,960
not saying that that these people are

1138
00:45:26,089 --> 00:45:23,970
coming from their light or are in touch

1139
00:45:27,650 --> 00:45:26,099
with that light but you see as soon as

1140
00:45:29,809 --> 00:45:27,660
we affirm that there's a light in them

1141
00:45:32,740 --> 00:45:29,819
you know what happens to it next as soon

1142
00:45:36,170 --> 00:45:32,750
as you bring your attention to even a

1143
00:45:40,940 --> 00:45:36,180
you know a particle you know in this

1144
00:45:44,059 --> 00:45:40,950
universe whether it's you know waves you

1145
00:45:46,010 --> 00:45:44,069
know the structure of atoms the

1146
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:46,020
structure of molecules as soon as we

1147
00:45:51,829 --> 00:45:49,410
bring attention to a wave it becomes a

1148
00:45:54,109 --> 00:45:51,839
particle it starts to become something

1149
00:45:57,289 --> 00:45:54,119
so as soon as I affirm that in you

1150
00:45:59,390 --> 00:45:57,299
somewhere there is a spark of light the

1151
00:46:01,190 --> 00:45:59,400
spark of light starts to ignite and it

1152
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:01,200
sounds really strange but if people

1153
00:46:07,849 --> 00:46:04,890
could say to to whomever Hitler and

1154
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:07,859
whomever you know I I'm not at all

1155
00:46:12,049 --> 00:46:09,930
supporting their behaviors meaning if I

1156
00:46:13,789 --> 00:46:12,059
were me doing the exercise in no way

1157
00:46:15,650 --> 00:46:13,799
shape or form are your behaviors okay

1158
00:46:17,030 --> 00:46:15,660
appropriate and I even believe in

1159
00:46:18,049 --> 00:46:17,040
speaking out when you're in a situation

1160
00:46:20,299 --> 00:46:18,059
to do so

1161
00:46:22,730 --> 00:46:20,309
if that's what the moment calls for like

1162
00:46:25,069 --> 00:46:22,740
I don't believe in enabling hurtful

1163
00:46:27,410 --> 00:46:25,079
behavior I tell people all the time if

1164
00:46:28,460 --> 00:46:27,420
someone's hurting someone it's quite

1165
00:46:31,130 --> 00:46:28,470
alright for you to say

1166
00:46:33,170 --> 00:46:31,140
not today that's it it ends here if

1167
00:46:36,020 --> 00:46:33,180
you're gonna gossip and hate somebody

1168
00:46:37,819 --> 00:46:36,030
I'm okay to say listen did you notice

1169
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:37,829
your your you're doing hate speech to

1170
00:46:41,329 --> 00:46:39,450
that person in case you haven't noticed

1171
00:46:43,789 --> 00:46:41,339
I'm the other person in the room I'm not

1172
00:46:46,339 --> 00:46:43,799
into it like for them to hear know is a

1173
00:46:48,970 --> 00:46:46,349
good thing sometimes but my main point

1174
00:46:51,370 --> 00:46:48,980
was when we see a

1175
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:51,380
ferm that spark of light in a person it

1176
00:46:56,050 --> 00:46:53,450
starts to ignite and to imagine that you

1177
00:46:58,359 --> 00:46:56,060
were I could make a difference in the

1178
00:47:01,810 --> 00:46:58,369
life and the consciousness of a Hitler

1179
00:47:03,430 --> 00:47:01,820
okay you can say well he doesn't deserve

1180
00:47:05,620 --> 00:47:03,440
it okay fine you can believe that but

1181
00:47:07,870 --> 00:47:05,630
listen to this but if I could make a

1182
00:47:09,490 --> 00:47:07,880
difference in him could it mean that he

1183
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:09,500
would never come back and do the same

1184
00:47:14,170 --> 00:47:11,330
thing that means you and I can save

1185
00:47:16,630 --> 00:47:14,180
millions hundreds of millions or who

1186
00:47:19,330 --> 00:47:16,640
knows billions of lives on this planet

1187
00:47:21,340 --> 00:47:19,340
if we can kind of nip it in the bud and

1188
00:47:26,230 --> 00:47:21,350
this is what I call loving the hell out

1189
00:47:28,330 --> 00:47:26,240
of someone Michael I have lots of guests

1190
00:47:30,250 --> 00:47:28,340
come on the show and I often put this

1191
00:47:31,900 --> 00:47:30,260
question to them and it's it's can be a

1192
00:47:34,349 --> 00:47:31,910
difficult question to answer because

1193
00:47:37,390 --> 00:47:34,359
it's more experienced than it is an

1194
00:47:38,710 --> 00:47:37,400
exercise or giving someone a little gift

1195
00:47:41,050 --> 00:47:38,720
and have him to just you know wearing

1196
00:47:43,060 --> 00:47:41,060
around their neck how does one go into

1197
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:43,070
the state of forgiveness or truly

1198
00:47:46,390 --> 00:47:44,570
letting go of something you know we can

1199
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:46,400
say well you know this is what you do

1200
00:47:50,260 --> 00:47:47,810
but that's really not the case at all

1201
00:47:52,599 --> 00:47:50,270
because you can lead someone to the door

1202
00:47:55,210 --> 00:47:52,609
but they have to open it in your

1203
00:47:56,980 --> 00:47:55,220
experience how does how would you offer

1204
00:47:58,720 --> 00:47:56,990
to the listening audience for them to

1205
00:48:01,330 --> 00:47:58,730
find that place of truly being able to

1206
00:48:03,670 --> 00:48:01,340
surrender and or let go and or forgive

1207
00:48:06,010 --> 00:48:03,680
and that seems to be it's not just like

1208
00:48:07,300 --> 00:48:06,020
a tool that you can hand someone if you

1209
00:48:09,730 --> 00:48:07,310
have one side and find that light switch

1210
00:48:11,890 --> 00:48:09,740
so this week well the three steps I just

1211
00:48:14,050 --> 00:48:11,900
shared are the way and it'll work

1212
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:14,060
there's other techniques that might suit

1213
00:48:17,530 --> 00:48:16,010
other people certain ways but that

1214
00:48:21,550 --> 00:48:17,540
that's really going to be important but

1215
00:48:24,580 --> 00:48:21,560
here's one other really important piece

1216
00:48:26,109 --> 00:48:24,590
to it all which is if people would

1217
00:48:29,290 --> 00:48:26,119
understand that forgiveness is a process

1218
00:48:30,700 --> 00:48:29,300
not an event you know people go okay

1219
00:48:33,849 --> 00:48:30,710
fine I'm going to go ahead and forgive

1220
00:48:36,010 --> 00:48:33,859
you abracadabra done and they go okay

1221
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:36,020
fine it's done now they're wondering a

1222
00:48:40,660 --> 00:48:38,330
year later they go why is this still

1223
00:48:42,609 --> 00:48:40,670
coming up because they expected this to

1224
00:48:44,950 --> 00:48:42,619
be an abracadabra which means to a

1225
00:48:46,990 --> 00:48:44,960
degree it might not have been as sincere

1226
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:47,000
as we might have hoped so that's

1227
00:48:49,270 --> 00:48:48,410
important for us to be responsible and

1228
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:49,280
look at that but

1229
00:48:55,090 --> 00:48:53,570
on another note the the concept of

1230
00:48:58,840 --> 00:48:55,100
forgiveness the act of forgiveness is a

1231
00:49:02,289 --> 00:48:58,850
process meaning today as far as I know

1232
00:49:04,029 --> 00:49:02,299
I'm willing to give this up okay so I do

1233
00:49:05,259 --> 00:49:04,039
a week later I have some tears and I

1234
00:49:06,819 --> 00:49:05,269
don't know where it's coming from when I

1235
00:49:08,349 --> 00:49:06,829
look at it I realize it's related to

1236
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:08,359
some of the hurts that somebody might

1237
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:10,729
have seemingly caused me okay so now I

1238
00:49:15,549 --> 00:49:13,130
work on that I feel kind of relieved I

1239
00:49:19,630 --> 00:49:15,559
feel kind of you know open inside a

1240
00:49:22,539 --> 00:49:19,640
little more spacious and free then maybe

1241
00:49:26,049 --> 00:49:22,549
maybe it's somebody that created some

1242
00:49:29,559 --> 00:49:26,059
hurt in me when I was let's say a child

1243
00:49:31,959 --> 00:49:29,569
okay so now I go on and I have children

1244
00:49:34,299 --> 00:49:31,969
as I have children and they reach the

1245
00:49:36,459 --> 00:49:34,309
age I was when I was abused it could

1246
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:36,469
start triggering stuff inside of me as

1247
00:49:42,579 --> 00:49:40,249
I'm feeling this kind of resonance this

1248
00:49:44,890 --> 00:49:42,589
energy like the tuning forks you know so

1249
00:49:47,709 --> 00:49:44,900
my children reaching a certain age puts

1250
00:49:49,900 --> 00:49:47,719
out a vibe and my body feels it and it

1251
00:49:52,029 --> 00:49:49,910
triggers the memories in me when I was a

1252
00:49:55,179 --> 00:49:52,039
child of that age okay so now let's

1253
00:49:57,849 --> 00:49:55,189
pretend I work on that or let's pretend

1254
00:49:59,739 --> 00:49:57,859
I stuff it or ignore it it's still gonna

1255
00:50:01,749 --> 00:49:59,749
come back when my children have children

1256
00:50:04,299 --> 00:50:01,759
and reach that age or when I see a child

1257
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:04,309
in a store it's my age I was when I was

1258
00:50:08,620 --> 00:50:06,410
her the universe is gonna keep trying to

1259
00:50:11,410 --> 00:50:08,630
bring from here and there these things

1260
00:50:13,259 --> 00:50:11,420
that seem annoying to us you know why am

1261
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:13,269
i meeting another person like that

1262
00:50:18,069 --> 00:50:15,650
typically it would only be because it's

1263
00:50:20,410 --> 00:50:18,079
helping to potential it's bringing

1264
00:50:22,809 --> 00:50:20,420
potential of releasing something to a

1265
00:50:25,299 --> 00:50:22,819
more authentic and thorough level and

1266
00:50:26,349 --> 00:50:25,309
and that can seem a bit inconvenient but

1267
00:50:28,569 --> 00:50:26,359
there's nothing more important

1268
00:50:30,789 --> 00:50:28,579
forgiveness you know love and

1269
00:50:32,890 --> 00:50:30,799
forgiveness establishes us back to our

1270
00:50:35,890 --> 00:50:32,900
divinity what could be more important

1271
00:50:37,449 --> 00:50:35,900
than that Michael we have time for maybe

1272
00:50:38,979 --> 00:50:37,459
one more question about two minutes if

1273
00:50:41,439 --> 00:50:38,989
you would in your opinion in your

1274
00:50:43,359 --> 00:50:41,449
experience what is more powerful formal

1275
00:50:47,349 --> 00:50:43,369
prayer trying to convince God to help

1276
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:47,359
someone out or sending someone you

1277
00:50:50,739 --> 00:50:49,130
direct energy through a visualization

1278
00:50:52,689 --> 00:50:50,749
process and just loving them sending

1279
00:50:53,859 --> 00:50:52,699
that all their way what are your

1280
00:50:56,019 --> 00:50:53,869
thoughts on that sir we have about two

1281
00:50:58,539 --> 00:50:56,029
minutes the latter of the two would be

1282
00:51:00,819 --> 00:50:58,549
the one I would lean to but they would

1283
00:51:03,489 --> 00:51:00,829
say in us in another sense so that we're

1284
00:51:05,769 --> 00:51:03,499
fair and the things that we most believe

1285
00:51:09,219 --> 00:51:05,779
and will work the most so if somebody

1286
00:51:11,380 --> 00:51:09,229
really believes these and it tears in

1287
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:11,390
the eyes and pray to the Almighty God up

1288
00:51:15,039 --> 00:51:13,729
in the sky please if that's where

1289
00:51:15,579 --> 00:51:15,049
they're at I think it's beautiful

1290
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:15,589
because

1291
00:51:19,930 --> 00:51:17,930
anything we truly believe in is really a

1292
00:51:23,799 --> 00:51:19,940
beautiful thing to do so them doing that

1293
00:51:27,370 --> 00:51:23,809
I think is is remarkable which one is a

1294
00:51:29,469 --> 00:51:27,380
little more let's call it evolved prayer

1295
00:51:30,489 --> 00:51:29,479
prayers the first level of prayer

1296
00:51:32,349 --> 00:51:30,499
there's people that don't break at all

1297
00:51:34,660 --> 00:51:32,359
but they don't realize that even our

1298
00:51:35,890 --> 00:51:34,670
comments our prayers even our complaints

1299
00:51:39,459 --> 00:51:35,900
or prayers but they're just not very

1300
00:51:42,579 --> 00:51:39,469
good right you know but so so pray

1301
00:51:44,890 --> 00:51:42,589
prayer in the form of begging God for

1302
00:51:46,900 --> 00:51:44,900
something is a very fundamental level

1303
00:51:49,739 --> 00:51:46,910
it's a it's a it's a fundamental base

1304
00:51:52,989 --> 00:51:49,749
level it's better than nothing but

1305
00:51:55,420 --> 00:51:52,999
shifting to affirmative prayer which is

1306
00:51:58,029 --> 00:51:55,430
a positive nada I want this but rather

1307
00:52:01,109 --> 00:51:58,039
I'm affirming that this is so is more

1308
00:52:03,759 --> 00:52:01,119
evolved and even more so decrease

1309
00:52:04,599 --> 00:52:03,769
decrease are like affirmations on

1310
00:52:06,190 --> 00:52:04,609
steroids

1311
00:52:08,559 --> 00:52:06,200
this is when it's not just like I'm

1312
00:52:10,690 --> 00:52:08,569
affirming good things I am boom I'm like

1313
00:52:12,609 --> 00:52:10,700
you know like in the Bible Jesus says

1314
00:52:15,729 --> 00:52:12,619
decree a thing and it will be so like

1315
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:15,739
that's really like it's affirmations but

1316
00:52:22,420 --> 00:52:18,170
with intense faith behind it and on and

1317
00:52:23,799 --> 00:52:22,430
on so decrees are very powerful and and

1318
00:52:25,569 --> 00:52:23,809
I should say you know and then further

1319
00:52:28,989 --> 00:52:25,579
than that even further than that is just

1320
00:52:31,329 --> 00:52:28,999
communion with God see because you know

1321
00:52:33,849 --> 00:52:31,339
I see God you helped bring me a new car

1322
00:52:35,769 --> 00:52:33,859
picture this you bringing a new car or I

1323
00:52:38,019 --> 00:52:35,779
affirm that a new car is coming my way

1324
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:38,029
or I decree that I have this and that

1325
00:52:42,849 --> 00:52:40,249
and by a certain date great but check

1326
00:52:46,269 --> 00:52:42,859
this out if I learn to commune with God

1327
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:46,279
and I become one with God what is it

1328
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:50,450
that I could not have in my life that it

1329
00:52:54,959 --> 00:52:52,249
wouldn't be there if I'm one with God if

1330
00:52:57,729 --> 00:52:54,969
God is all so the community altar

1331
00:53:00,309 --> 00:52:57,739
communion type but if I tell you that

1332
00:53:01,870 --> 00:53:00,319
the ultimate prayer is communion and the

1333
00:53:03,759 --> 00:53:01,880
ultimate forgiveness is when you realize

1334
00:53:05,589 --> 00:53:03,769
there's nothing left to forgive then

1335
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:05,599
people try to jump to that final step

1336
00:53:10,809 --> 00:53:08,170
and commune when they don't know how or

1337
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for you know experience there's no need

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to forgive anything anymore

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when in fact they're still hurting so

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even though I'm saying there's higher

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levels we have to really be careful and

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be responsible to only work the ones

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that we're where we're at in our

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consciousness where our beliefs are and

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so Michael I need to cut off buddy I

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hate it I know let me rephrase that

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we the time our it time goes by so fast

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when I'm living in on the in the Bliss

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strata please come back my apologies to

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you about some of the sound issues that

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I'm having audio/video issues or is

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there is there a quick closing thought I

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mean we had a matter of a half a minute

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yes I would like to just say this

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whatever we're talking about here you

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like it you don't like it and so on the

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one thing I would like to affirm for us

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all is rediscover oneness with God find

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a way to commune with God and remember

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one of the best ways is through humility

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pray sincerely forgive sincerely it

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doesn't matter the technique if it's

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sincere go for it sincerity and humility

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that's the way back home everyone mr.

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Michael Amir dad I say all the time

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passion sincerity humility and what is

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the other one um passion sincerity

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humility and while it's leading me okay

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so everyone keep tempting Blanchett here

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your host the City of Light radio every

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Monday night 6 p.m. Eastern Time you can

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find it here in this channel so thank

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you to my wonderful guest today and

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thank you to a very full channel I'm

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gonna be seeing you next week always

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remember you have nothing to do late at

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night you just laying in the bed you

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might as well be doing something breathe

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breathe like he wants something beyond

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which you've ever known you find

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yourself shortly living the deafening

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cosmic life screaming all things are in

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there trust me that's where the good

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stuffs at get a man do you think make

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your life experience to the Bliss that

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you came here to experience peace love

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and light